The world will not keep you apart, love Mom

 I believe in signs and one of them is that my mom and best friend share the same birthday. Today, 2/26 is their birthday and for the past seven years it has been a tradition that I fly down to spend some much needed time with my  bestie. It's my birthday gift to her, a girls weekend catching up and doing all the things we love to do together, like shopping and eating! 

This year the ticket prices have tripled from what I usually pay and so I didn't make it down. I had given up hope of finding a cheap flight and was planning on taking a week off over the summer to drive down. 

The first thing I did this morning when I woke up  was text her "Happy Birthday" and how I wished I could be there with her  to celebrate as we usually do. She texted back how it felt like the world was conspiring to keep us apart. I answered that it sure did feel that way this year. 

A second later I receive a text from my daughter. I am expecting it to be a request of some sort as she has been sick. She did not know I was awake yet, so I also assumed it was an emergency.  I opened her message to see a screen shot of a list of flights from Philadelphia to Ft Myers for $73.00 round trip. I was weirded out for a minute because Kelly and I were basically just moaning over the fact that we couldn't be together this year due to the high ticket prices and out of no where Ashy texts me about cheap airfare! I also am thinking it's probably too good to be true. I have her send me the direct link and  discover that sure enough it is true! 

Within minutes I have texted Kelly to see what weekend works best for her? She responds back to me, "I will make any weekend work." and then I purchased two round trip tickets for $145.92. It's now official , Ashy and I are going to Florida in a few weeks! I will get to spend some much needed time with my BFF and my three older sons that also live in Naples. I am on cloud nine today!

If felt like my mom was looking down from Heaven and saw how we were feeling like the world was working against us and said "No girls, the world is not going to keep you apart" and just like that the cheapest tickets I have seen in a very long time appeared and for the perfect travel days for us, Friday thru Monday. It couldn't have worked out more perfectly! Pure magic!

I asked Ashy what made her spontaneously look for tickets to Florida this morning?  She said "I don't know, a memory popped up of when we were down there a couple years ago and I just decided to see if there were cheap tickets". 

What perfect timing! Definitely some birthday magic going on today!  Thanks Mom 💖

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